Like the title says. :/ My last several PM's to her are unread in my outbox and an email I sent hasn't been answered. I sent her quite a lot of money and as soon as she got it she stopped communicating. I know she isn't a scammer and she's said she's very busy, but I'd really like to get in contact with her to see when she's going to ship my pony.

Sorry to hear she hasnt been communicating with you lately She hasnt posted since June 14th, and she can be a bit hit 'n' miss when it comes to posting regularly as she has been busy like you mentioned, but hopefully she'll reply soon

She's replied to my email but hadn't sent the pony yet. I'm glad to hear she's alright though, I was gettign worried!

Glad to hear she replied

Haven't heard from her in nearly a week again, and last I heard she hadn't shipped my pony. It's been about a month since I paid her for it.

No response to multiple PM's and emails. It's been 10 days since she last contacted me and very nearly a month since I paid. I've been patient til now but this pony was very expensive and CM only accepts money orders so there is no way to get my money back if she disappears.

what a shame! I was hoping that she would have had chance to sort things out with you by now . The good news is that whe she has been missing before, she always came back to make things right .. although it can take a while. I do think that you will eventually get your pony, but you have already been very patient. Even if she is still busy with real life stuff, she does need to come back and post or PM an update letting you know if/when she shipped the pony to you etc

If she had mentioned to me that she was this busy or that she was moving BEFORE she had me pay, I wouldn't be as upset. But she never did, and now she has both the money and the pony. The pony could have been here by now if she'd sent it when I paid, especially considering what I paid to have it sent in the first place.

I know she's had issues in the past and always resloved them, but honestly if she hadn't posted that she's "back for good" in the last TS thread about her I would have passed on this deal, regardless of how rare the pony is (it's the lilac-haired Mexican Posey, for the record).

Ok, this is ridiculous. No contact in about 3 weeks. Do I just leave feedback and post a follow-up if she ever decides to surface and send me my pony, or what? She doesn't answer emails OR PM's, and I think I have finally lost the last shreds of my patience with her.

Such a shame because she put a lot of effort into making things right last time I would normally suggest sending her an "urgent response required" PM and then opening a case (which would possibly get her attention) but if you paid by money order then that isnt gonna work
no pony + no money + no communication is not good and it usually = feedback to reflect that too IMHO. Leaving honest feedback is important, so if you want to do that at this point then its ok. Like you said , if/when she comes back and sorts things out , you can revise the feedback to show that

How frustrating that you are left waiting after she claimed to "be back", Skeen! I had taken her off the Traderlist at the time because all the current transactions had been resolved - I didn't know that she had started more.

I've put her on the Traderlist again and since this is the second time now, it will take some convincing for the community's opinion to forgive her.

Hope she gets in contact soon!

I also have an unresolved trade with Cottonmedley. I have been waiting for my half since March. The transaction was not high value but she had a non-pony item I wanted that I can not find anywhere else. She replies with time to my messages usually saying she is about to ship- but I still have not received anything.

I'm really sorry to hear that Swancrossing This is disappointing- CM really shouldnt have started trading /selling again if her life was still too hectic for her to ship items Thanks for adding her to the trader list again LBS

I've just sent her my weekly "what is the status" email, but I don't expect a reply at this point.

A friend of mine said that she'd seen CM log on to her MSN messenger as recently as last week, so she has some form of internet access. She still has not read any of the PM's I sent her here and I haven't gotten any read receipts from my emails.

At this point there's nothing I can do. I'm out the money for the pony plus shipping, plus all the fees associated with sending a WU payment, and the pony itself. And to hear that SwanCrossing was in a trade with her too makes it even worse, because she was actively negotiating with me while NOT sending SC's end of their trade.

Sorry to keep replying, but CM was seen online TODAY and still hasn't read or responded to any of the PM's and emails I've sent her.

Swancrossing, have you been emailing her too? Does anyone have a different email address for her?