First of all I want to say that I'm really sorry to hear about your loss, banditpony! I know how it feels to lose someone and that it leaves you in so much pain that you're not able to think about or do anything else. So I think you have to take your time to sort things out. Mistakes happen to all of us, that's just human.
I'm sure people will understand if you let them know what happened and I'm sure that noone has the intention of nagging you. It just feels this way for you now because of the situation you're in.
I have both bought from and traded with you and you have been a very nice and reliable person. You have proven so by opening this thread and showing the people you are dealing with that you care.
I'm sure everything can be sorted out here.
