Kissing. A few pointers please!

BabySugarberry · Optimus Prime Pony Joined: Jun 20, 2004 Posts: 1294

My bf has been making comments recently about how we haven't formally kissed since we started going out spproximately three months ago. The funny and embarrassing aspect is that I don't know how to kiss a guy, cause he's my first boyfriend (I am al ittle picky about guys LOL) I'm very shy about these sorts of things! Heheh heh... Look Round

So how do you kiss a guy???? pardon my stupid q... Huh

BS ^_~

(moving to Off Topic - you should get tons of great pointers there! Smile

Dragonfly)

Cazzlebunny

1) close your eyes (optional)
2) don't slobber
3) enjoy!

Just take it slowly. It's like learning to ride a bike - with a little practice, it's one of the nicest feelings in the world. Smile

GloryGeekGirl

Everyone has a first kiss, so don't freak out too much about that. =) And enjoy it! Cazzle's right -- drool is bad. (Had a boyfriend once who used to leave slobber all over my chin... ew...) And if you're both laughing and enjoying yourselves, that makes it even better.

Loa

Don't forget to breathe!

hikaru · G3 Prototype Pony Joined: Aug 11, 2005 Posts: 3403

loababy wrote:

Don't forget to breathe!

lol that is really important Wink

oh, and once you do it (kissing, i mean Smile

) it's like you've done it forever Look Round

funkstar_delux

Ditto to everything everyone has said above...and remember that the best kisses aren't the ones that are planned, they're the ones that just happen! They take you by surprise and leave you kinda breathless. Those are the best kisses in the world :o)

zabe77

Oh first kiss! Lucky you! Have fun! Kissing is so nice, how can it not be fun? Just don't kiss to hard... I had a boyfriend who muscled me with is lips and it was very uncomfortable... both me and my hubby think each others kisses are soft and nice. Once you have that first kiss or two it'll feel totally natural. You can always practice on your hand... the fleshy part on the back where the thumb muscle is.

MLPMom

funkstar_delux wrote:

Ditto to everything everyone has said above...and remember that the best kisses aren't the ones that are planned, they're the ones that just happen! They take you by surprise and leave you kinda breathless. Those are the best kisses in the world :o)

I so agree with that! Just let it happen naturally and don't force anything and it will be great! Smile

df

Try it, it will come naturally, believe me!!!! And have fun! Big Ups

Moonstar

Is it true it's not a real kiss unless its all open mouthed and tongue-y? Not that I'm new to kissing but that's what all my friends seem to think Poke Tounge

obsidianfoxfire · Mommy & Baby Pony Joined: May 28, 2005 Posts: 1848

Totally not true. You can still have a good kiss without too much saliva-swapping, just like you can have a good kiss with lots of tongue. Not too much tongue though... my first boyfriend practically stuck his tongue down my throat, and the one after that tried to cover my lips with his mouth, it felt like he was eating my face. None of that. Bad. lol

Sweetiemi · Sweetheart Sister Joined: Jan 31, 2005 Posts: 8510

uh... i have probs with that too,... im soooo shy!
ive kissed before and such, but it was like years ago and now i have a tounge piercing and i havent tryed it since i got it done (last summer, lol...)
mm... drooling over the whole face is SO groose. hate that.
i hope itll work out for you... and for me Poke Tounge

pegasustania

lol once you have done it youll keep doing it good luck, enjoy it

df

Peg has it totally right.

SilverHealer

obsidianfoxfire wrote:

my first boyfriend practically stuck his tongue down my throat, and the one after that tried to cover my lips with his mouth, it felt like he was eating my face. None of that. Bad. lol

My first boyfriend tried to do that to me too...:lmao: *shudders*