I had stated in private to her that she was under no obligation to refund me anything (nor did I expect any) for the faded hair. I came here to ask for help seeing as I felt a little disappointed, tried my best at putting a messege together and sent it. Though it appears I have messed that up and disappointed/offended her.

One of which I said repeatedly is I am very pleased with these two ponies, happy to have them, just a bit sad about the hair. (this probably makes no sence)
I had been doing research on these girls, hard to find any, thus why I came here to scan the Galleries and ask about them. I hoped more people would post pics of their SCs, but that never came after the first initial replies. There was one descriptive reply that helped, im thankful.
I can't stop looking at them, they are so beautiful. I'm not a n00b collector but I am not a nirvana/rare/varient/hardcore/<insert other>(?) type a collector either, hehe. There are no flaws on their body, eyes, symbols and the hair is silky and looks uncut. Nothing wrong with the accessories either and all is accounted for according to the collector sites. Is there something missing (accessory wise) in the picture that maybe the sites don't list? =/
Vertti did post in the description that this set was M-NM condition, that all their accessories were there. May I ask then what was it about these Sweet Clovers that made you label them M-NM?
I am a bit disappointed that I offered so much when I found out about the hair, it was too late to go back and discuss as I had paid by that time. I do understand this was my mistake for not asking her and questioning more about the Clovers. Though she says she didn't know about the hair, so now I think asking wouldn't have helped me much in this case, heh, even with the very little infos that were provided. Yes a lesson learned, doesn't make me feel much better about myself, eh. I messed up again.
I thought about the repinking and wondered if it was absolutely neccessary to do so, with these two being somewhat rare. And repinking may cause more harm than good seeing as I never done this yet. ^^' I don't want to devalue them either, if this is possible with recoloring. I may leave them as I had recieved them from Vertti.
I wasn't offed any shipping charge as she included it in my offer, I never asked for it to be included. Actually I was waiting for a shipping total to be tacked on, hehe.
I didn't have 'complaint' in my mind when I wrote this thread, it was more as inquiring for thoughts and actions on how others think and what others would do in this situation.
Edit to add on 1-6-08
Below is a messege I type up as a PM to BM after seeing updates to this transaction just a few weeks ago. Not sure why I wasn't notified of all this to stand by my side of the story, so here it is.
Something I found while searching on myself...
I was going through my posts to look up some old information that I had questioned on sometime back, and then was shocked to find a post about me that I was not notified of. Not a chance to even defend myself.
A rant/need to unload thoughts/feelings? I suppose, bear with me if you have time. If you can't, I understand. No need to reply back but If you wish to, it's more than welcome. I need to get this out, i'll know at the least it was looked at.
It's all water under the bridge and over a year ago as it appears on the date stamps. Still it affects me whether I post for answers to questions presently in the community... to personally irl. Heh, I was wondering why I wasn't getting many answers for my posts asking for help and information over the months since this happened. Seeing from the responses on those two posts, now I see. I don't post often as you can see by my time of joining and my post count, as I come on the board just to briefly check on any new pony news or any questions I may have and maybe, if I have time, a few comments on catchy topics. I really wished I had seen this as I had believed this was done and over with.
It's reguarding the transaction I had with Vertti a year back. Heh, I guess now feel like how she did when she saw my FB I left for her here. Shocked and upset.
I wish I knew about the bump of that post and Vertti's thread about my not-so-stellar FB I left for her. I wasn't PM'd/notified by anyone on it nor was I expecting such hurtfull responses. I have seen her thread now though and it really pains me, as it surely must have pained Vertti.
When I got those Sweet Clovers, I didn't know that their hair was faded becuse it was never stated in the description. I found out that this wasn't their factory appearence AFTER(not before) I had purchased and had them in hand, finding a MIB picture someone had on their site. No one pm'd me asking my side of things.
I seen alot of support topics come and go on discussions of whether is it the responsibility of the seller or the buyer where the fault, blame and make up for a mis-described item should fall. And I have seen debates sway from one side to the other.
She is a nirvana collector, so I am not that ill knowledged on how informed and educated one must try to be when collection such rare and expensive poines. You don't want to just blow tons of money on not legit items haphazerdly. I openly admitted that I didn't do my research on this set after I got them and inquired about their hair(I honestly thought this was how they looked from the factory). Though she never openly said that she was at fault for not doing her research, as well. Especially coming from a rare/nirvana collector, I found it hard to believe that she just did not know.
In the shipping conversation I had asked for a bubble envelope, yes, this wasn't the compaint I was making. AND had also requested that there be ALOT of padding for the items. I don't know why she says I hadn't, I was really concerned for their arrival as stated in my pm to her. I don't think that just a piece of tissue paper and a sandwhich baggie was efficient padding for a package going halfway around the world. Nor I don't think anyone else in my possition upon recieving this package would think otherwise. By the grace of God, I am greatful that those little items didn't fall thru that good sized hole in that envelope as nothing was secure. Surely whatever made that hole could have gone thru a pony but it's the senders responsibility to see to it those items are padded well to the best of thier ability. I wasn't asking for perfection as logic alone should have been enough for rather rare items.
Yes, she offered to refund me only for returning the ponies. By that time, I had followed the advice given to look inside the pony to check the roots of the hair. Thus I had already removed thier heads. I am not sure if Vertti would have taken them back then...
I tried to be as truthful as I possible could and thought LONG and HARD about leaving my FB to her after seeing the board was against me possibly because she is well known and I am not. I fought with myself for months with how this transaction went at the end, seeing that no one was possibly reading my posts and nor caring about my side at all. There were members and family and friends encouraging me to make a FB anyway... Even seeing on here, posts telling other members to have the courage to come forth and leave the honest feedback, no matter what.
Months went by, I never left a feedback. I felt bad for having the feeling of leaving one but also for -not- leaving one. My dealing with Vertti was all fine up to the point of my recieving them, I had openly expressed that. After reading stories of others getting encouragement to make the post, I decided to do so.
I knew there might be a conflict of comparison once I would leave the FB. Because no one hates to be wrong and feel attacked/offended. It's hard on the buying end to point fingers knowing it might get broken, heh. So I wrote the FB and hit the button to post it. Waited for it to pop up saying it was sent. Nothing. No messege came up confirming. I went to the FB section and looked immediately under her name. Nothing.
I thought 'maybe the Mods screen the FB that are left with less than 5 stars?'. Kept refreshing for thirty more minutes. Nothing. By this time I was exhausted and went to bed. For sometime I would check her FB and my pms AND the post. Nothing said. I then thought 'well, the mods 86'd it, had no ground to stand on.' and left it at that without a second thought. I apologize as I don't recall when the FB I made was sent.
Today I see it wasn't over looked, it somehow made it up on the FB board.
The comments from outside members(persons not in this transaction) was very hurtfull to see and unwarrented. It took alot to step forward and be as honest and to the point as I could. None posting on a view as if they are in my shoes, knowing full well almost everyone has been. I can understand, I been on both sides.
I know I don't have many dealings on the Arena to prove my worth of words. What little I do have, have all been possitive, honest FB from those I have delt with. Some even touching to me because it was never expected.
If you read this far, thank you from my heart. As this bothered Vertti greatly I see, I too. Let it be known that I had not purposefully ignored this matter, I thought it was dropped and forgotten. I know that this is all water under the bridge so to say, I needed to let my side be known, too, without opening old wounds. I apologize, Vertti, it wasn't easy for me either.
I feel that now with all this that my being a member here has been jaded as being a bad person. Not to deal with, which cripples my chances at getting any help when needed.
Thank you again for listening.
Sincerely,
Nibbles666
End messege and edit.