Hi. I called her today and while I didn't get her on the phone (she was apparently out shopping), I did speak with her sister who lives with her. She said she wasn't too familiar with the situation, but knew that her sister was looking for the insurance info for another buyer (i.e. babyprincessnicole). She took a message from me with my name (real and mlparena name, my phone number, and info on what it was regarding). She hasn't called me back yet... nor do I really expect her to. I may have to call again. So far I haven't even got confirmation that she even sent it. I've heard nothing from her since she said she received my check and was going to deposit it. The most annoying part is the lack of communication. Still looking for the insurance forms or mailing receipt? Then tell us that. Sent the package a while ago? Then tell me that. If it got lost in the mail, then we can deal with that. But what makes her so suspicious is the fact that she's not responding to anything. Argh. I hope she returns my call/answers my pms soon.

I'm very glad you got ahold of someone, fairy heart (and sorry again for sending you the wrong # at first). I'm really crossing my fingers that she will come through - at least send us a message, anything to keep us updated! If she doesn't have her receipts for some reason, I know that most stores can look up receipts by the date and method of payment (searching by debit or cc usually), and the post office shouldn't be any different.

Nicole

that's terrible! i will be blocking her id from my auctions.

Wow I'm so surprised that she's avoiding you all. Every time I've bought/sold from her she's been great. I'm so sorry that she's not been fulfilling her orders as of lately I really hope that everything works out for you both!! :nervous:

This is all ridiculous!

Let me start off by apologizing to Fairyheart who isn't a stalker like babyprincessnicole. Both packages were sent, neither one had insurance (bpn paid for it, but her shipping total came to higher than expected and i couldn't get the insurance). These packages were sent nearly a month ago. There is nothing I can do. I don't appreciate BPN calling my home at all hours, or by people threatening thugs at my door. That is a felony offense to threaten in that way, and I am appauled that people are so low. I myself have been out literally hundreds of dollars from actual bad deals, not from a package going missing. If anyone shows up anywhere near my home, I will immediately give out the names and home addresses of all of you much like you are trying to do (ie Prixton and BPN). My 2 year old will never be put in a place like that from psychos like you.

My grandmother is in the hospital. I don't appreciate any of this from anyone who has talked against me. Yes, I checked a few pms. No, I didn't care to write back. This is all worthless compared to my 92 year old grandmother. Sorry that I don't care, but my life is far more important than being on here 24/7 like I used to be. I don't have time to deal with this at all.

If you'd like to contest that I even sent out the packages, fine by me. Call the police or the post office. I will be glad to answer their questions if it goes to that point.

And where prixton is concerned, I never give out my home number to strangers. The internet is full of weirdos. Everyone should be as smart. And not going to the meet was legitimate. You wanted me to go during my son's naptime to plan it. Sorry, his needs are always above all elses. I explained that to you. You're still miffed about me not going to the meet, well get over it. No one was attending! The shirts weren't there, people were dropping out left and right. Get over it! This is why I don't give people like you my number. If you're mad at a random internet person not doing as you say, there is something wrong with you.

Woah. I think you should be more careful with what you say, wilmersgirl. I am not a psycho (and neither is fairyheart or babyprincessnicole), and I was only joking about sending thugs to your house. Of all the things you said, what really upsets me the most is two things:

1. the fact that BPN PAID for insurance, but you didn't get her insurance because her shipping total was higher than expected??? if the shipping total was higher than you quoted to her, that was YOUR fault, not hers. She is now out A LOT of money, which YOU are responsible for. Had you gotten the insurance for her, as she had paid for, the post office would reimburse her for her losses. But you didnt get the insurance, and that is no ones fault but your own. You should really own up to that responsibility, at the very least, if you want to maintain a good reputation here at the arena.

2. I am sorry that your grandmother is dying, but there are TWO people here, who paid A LOT of money for items from you. When they PM you, you should PM them back. Even if just to say "I'm sorry, I don't have time to send you more information at this time, but I will get back to you ASAP." instead of just leaving them hanging. THAT is why they have resorted to calling your house! If you had just made an effort to let them know what was going on, this whole thing could have been avoided.

As for the meet, we had a turn-out of 12 people. Yes, a couple people had to cancel at the last minute, but at least they told us they weren't coming, instead of just not showing up. But, that doesn't really matter anymore. What matters is the fact that fairyheart and babyprincessnicole sent you a lot of money for items that they never received. Rather than trying to help, or at the very least responding to their PMs, you are making excuses for yourself, and resorting to name calling.

I don't find threatening me and my family a joke. You have a disturbed sense of humor Prixton. You must not have little ones, it's easy to see. My son is very important to me. His safety is essential. I am now scared that someone like you lives so near to me. And furthermore, I'm not interested in your opinion in this matter since it doesn't involve you. I am also not interested in the pony community anymore, so my reputation for being a sweet girl isn't imporant to me in the least.

I'm taking care of fairyheart on the side since she has done nothing here. She will receive compensation.

I might not be the one out a lot of money, wilmersgirl, but it really upsets me that you could take so much money from someone, have them pay for insurance, "send" their items WITHOUT insurance, and not give them compensation. This is definitely irresponsibility on your part as a seller. I am glad you don't value your reputation here, because after this, you won't have much of one.

Thank you for your fine assessment.

In regards to the thugs, that should've been edited by a Mod immediately. Even in joking, saying things like that are never ok here. I'm editing it now. I'll be back to deal with all this though.

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WilmersGirl, not following through on transactions is one thing but not to even keep in contact is another. I will be pm'ing you later today.

I'm locking this thread so everyone can take a breath (myself included). WilmersGirl please follow through via private message with those you have unfinished transaction with.

Everyone please remember that private messages need to be kept civil and if they're not your account could be suspended.

Thanks,